Paper, cotton, whatever year you're on — this one is bound in boards
An anniversary gift that lasts the whole next year
By a certain number of anniversaries, the good gifts stop being things. You already have the things. What's scarcer is an unhurried Saturday, or a week where they don't have to think about dinner.
A book of promises turns that into something you can actually hand over — bound as a landscape hardback, one promise to a page, each a small appointment with you that has already been agreed. It goes on the shelf with the other years rather than into a drawer.
The digital version is included, so it works the same evening if the post won't make the date.
$44.99 — a real hardback, posted. Printed and bound to order in landscape boards, one promise to a page, despatched within 10 days. The digital book is included, so you can send the code the moment you pay.
Promise ideas for an anniversary
- A whole day off dutyI'll handle everyone and everything
- One slow morningNowhere to be until noon
- The thing you keep mentioningI was listening. Let's book it.
- A phone-free eveningBoth of us. Yes, both.
- You pick, I don't flinchRestaurant, film, holiday — your call
- An unreasonable lie-inRedeem any weekend
- I'll say it more oftenOut loud. Unprompted.
All of these are editable, and you can write your own instead — start a book and change every word. There are ninety more promise ideas sorted by who they are for.
How it works
- Stack your promises. Pick from the ideas above or write your own.
- Wrap it. Choose a cover, sign a note, and we seal it behind a secret code.
- Send the code. They open it, redeem promises whenever, and mark each one kept.
Questions
What's a good anniversary gift that isn't an object?
Time, mostly — and the specific kind. A promised weekend with no plans, a dinner that takes real effort, a day where they're off duty entirely. Written down and dated, those become something to look forward to rather than something you meant to do.
How many promises should an anniversary book have?
One a month is a good shape — twelve gives them something all year without either of you losing track. A free book holds three; premium holds up to twenty.
Can we both make one for each other?
People do, and it's a good ritual. Each of you builds one, you swap codes, and you find out what the other has been quietly hoping for.
Coupon books for other occasions
- Valentine's DayA hardback they can hold · the digital one comes with it
- BirthdayFor the person who says they don't want anything and means it
- Mother's DayShe doesn't want another candle. She wants you to call more.
- Father's DayHe has enough socks. He does not have a free Saturday with you in it.
- ChristmasSmall to give, big to receive, and nothing to put in the bin on Boxing Day
- Long-distancePosted to their door, or sent to their phone in the next minute
An anniversary gift that lasts the whole next year
Start your book →Making one for something else? Start from scratch or see how it works.
